Cruel Compendium #39 š
Infinite creativity, crying to Kacey Musgraves, and pegging the patriarchy
IāmĀ Jillian Anthony, and this is Cruel Summer Book Club, a newsletter about change and living well.Ā ICYMI, on the podcast I talked with Dr. Susie Bannon about her experience getting sober, going to prison, and the injustices of the prison industrial complex. Give it a listen.
You may have noticed the newsletter is coming less on Tuesdays latelyāIām traveling, moving and working a lot this month. For now, you can expect the newsletter on Thursdays as I release the next four podcast episodes, and regular Tuesday newsletters will return sometime soon. Thanks for being here!
Iām reading
The infinite well of creativity by Susan Orlean. Just keep writing.
Dead white manās clothes by Linton Besser. This interactive piece with shocking photos shows how fast fashion is turning parts of Ghana into a toxic landfill. I had no idea that weāre buying 60% more clothing than we were 15 years ago, and only keeping them half as long.
Sara Bareilles on the lessons of Pema Chodron and the joy of 10-mile walks by Sarah Bahr. These are a few of my favorite things. Bareilles shares some really actionable tips for mental health here. Sheās back on Broadway in Waitress right now!
Texas abortion laws will make patients suffer by Dr. Chavi Eve Karkowsky. Itās been strange grappling with the fact that I now live in a state leading the way in stripping women of their (legally protected) rights to bodily autonomy.
The United States has been heading in this direction for years, or even decades, as small and large legal actions have chipped away at abortion access by requiring ultrasounds that serve no medical need, and inappropriate but legally mandated counseling, and waiting periods that exist purely to add another logistical barrier for people who have already made up their mind to end a pregnancy.Ā Eighty-seven percent of countiesĀ in the U.S. already do not have an abortion provider; many of the ones that do have a doctor flown in one day a week, at considerable personal risk. Getting an abortion in most of the United States is already generally the privilege of people who are wealthy or who live in the right jurisdiction, or both.
TheĀ New York TimesāĀ āItās Never Too Lateā seriesĀ tells stories of people who prove youāre never too old to follow your dreams. And Dodai Stewart talks about how readingĀ The Artistās WayĀ inspired her!
Again and again, the message was that you are not stuck; you can change your mind. You can change your life.
Questionable self-care advice
Support system
Vision board
My current nail art has been on my vision board for years. Book with @jmoneynails if youāre in New York! š
Obsessions
š Keep a logbook
š Dying lying at this thread about being single again after a long time out of the game: āThey pegging out hereā
š āāļø Of course we can be friends
š What you clicked on most last time: How to do a life audit with 100 Post-its
Minerva moment
Minerva is spending the month in Las Vegas with my parents. I canāt stop smiling at this picture of how happy my dad is to have her with him again.
Anthem
āFreedomā by Kygo and Zak Abel
Iāve been listening to this song obsessively. I hope youāre feeling free this week.
Check out the full CSBC playlist
PSāwhoās been crying to the new Kacey Musgraves album this week? šāāļø
Mood
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