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I find it particularly refreshing to have stumbled upon this network. The micro-tiktok trend doesn't suit my needs for connection and emotional oversharing either.

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Thank you for sharing your thoughts on aging. The line about limiting beliefs really stuck with me and is something that we have talked a lot about amongst ourselves at SSC. It is nice to hear other women feel the same pressures or get into similar thought patterns.

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Oct 26, 2023Liked by Jillian Anthony

Yeah. I am the same age as you and really bothered by my 11 lines. Every day I’m like I should just get Botox!!! My eternal struggle. I don’t color my greys either. I find myself missing feeling “attractive”. This is embarrassing to admit! I don’t exist for the male gaze! I *intellectually* know that aging is a gift but little things like this surprise me.

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Oct 26, 2023Liked by Jillian Anthony

this is a comforting read. growing older sounds genuinely freeing 🥰

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There’s so much good in this essay but most importantly, earplugs at concerts make the whole experience so much more enjoyable, they are life changing

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