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Cruel compendium #18: Gift guide edition 🎁

Things, artists and writers I love

Jillian Anthony
Nov 27, 2020
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I’m thankful for the space I’ve had here to make it art, and connect with all of you. If you’re planning to spend this weekend clicking on things on the internet you may or may not purchase and letting your brain float into a capitalism cloud (like I am), allow me to provide some inspiration. Read on for a gift guide full of items, artists and writers I love and want to share with you. Be well.


I’m reading

False labor by Lena Dunham, on her fertility struggles

Will anyone ever love me? in the !Hola Papi! advice newsletter

The Thing Is, a poem by Ellen Bass, h/t Laura Olin’s newsletter

When Covid hit, I started walking 20,000 steps a day. It changed my life. By Isaac Fitzgerald

How to stop interrupting and change the world by Nancy Kline

Elena Ferrante’s 40 favorite books by female authors


I’m listening to

All five of You’re Wrong About’s episodes about Princess Diana 😢


Questionable self-care advice

Twitter avatar for @gossipbabies
cancela lansbury @gossipbabies
How much sleep do u need to get rid of under eye bags ?? Like if you’re over 30 is there even time
5:12 PM ∙ Nov 15, 2020
251Likes9Retweets
Twitter avatar for @annabroges
anna borges @annabroges
wow the sexual tension between me and the mental health advice i write but don't follow
9:29 PM ∙ Oct 22, 2020
902Likes101Retweets

Support I got that you might need to hear

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A post shared by ihavethisthingwithurbanjungles (@brittanygowan)

Gift guide!

None of these are affiliate links—only things I love and desire and want you to know about.

Art and feminist gifts from Boss Dotty
I own this boob print and many cards.

Cotton masks in incredible prints from Steak Diane
They give a portion of proceeds to rotating charities, and they’re an Instagram must-follow.

Counted La Croix cross-stitch
Or a cactus or boobs.

Floral art bouquet from Studio Roof

The Future is Female tie-dye shirt from DentzDenim

Gifts from the National Parks Project for the nature-lover in your life
I love this Yellowstone pendant and 2021 calendar.

Glad & Young Studio
Leather goods in hand-dyed colors from an Atlanta-based brand. I have their earrings and journal and want this keychain.

Goodwill mystery boxes
Boxes of sustainable clothing, proceeds go to programs that support the community.

Honest art by Adam J. Kurtz
This keychain adorns my hiking backpack, and I just bought this notebook so I can write about my feelings about leaving New York rather than pen a bad essay.

The LELO Sona Cruise 2
The best vibrator I’ve ever had. On sale!

Little Rooms jewelry
Strong energy.

Milk Bar delivery
PLEASE.

Mystic Mondays tarot deck
The vibrant, feminist tarot deck I was gifted last year and use often.

New York City car freshener by Homesick
Yes, I do want this candle.

Scott Lenhardt art
I buy his 24-hour woman calendar of a nude adventurer every year, and my sister even has a tattoo of her. I don’t see the 2021 calendar on sale yet, but he still has wonderful pins and art for sale.

So many amazing gifts from Black-owned businesses on Etsy

Sustainable, luxe wrapping paper from Unwrp

Some of my favorite books
Remember to buy from an independent and/or Black-owned bookstore

Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel S.F. Heller
Bad Feminist by Roxane Gay (read our interview at Time Out New York)
Blue Nights by Joan Didion
Once More We Saw Stars by Jayson Greene. Read our CSBC interview here.
Priestdaddy by Patricia Lockwood


Newsletter subscriptions to gift yourself or others

Most of these have free versions, but you can support the writer and get more content by buying a subscription.

#5SmartReads for a lot of great reads from several smart women

The Ann Friedman weekly. All the links you’ll ever need from a writer I adore.

Anti-Racism Daily, a daily educational email.

Cheryl Strayed brings back Dear Sugar

Drawing Links by Edith Zimmerman. Daily musings told through comics.

Evil Witches, a hilarious newsletter for people who happen to be mothers

Foreign Bodies, exploring the intersection of the immigrant experience and mental health.

Griefbacon by Helena Fitzgerald, who thankfully just brought back her newsletter of moving essays

My Sweet Dumb Brain by Katie Hawkins-Gaar, on living with grief. Read our CSBC interview here.

Tangle, a daily bipartisan politics newsletter

True Colors, sharing work by women of color

Webworm with David Ferrier. Ferrier brought us the documentary Tickled and TV show Dark Tourist and continues to explore the internet’s underbelly here.

More newsletters I love that are free:

Creative links from artist Austin Kleon

!Hola Papi!, a queer advice newsletter

Laura Olin’s lists, one of my few must-reads

Nisha’s Internet Tote Bag; life musings, links, and recipes

Subtle Maneuvers, on the working habits of artists

The Sunday Soother, on self-growth and healthy habits

The Tiff Weekly, about the author’s life and work in London


For some cheer

  • Remember how big the world is outside of your problems with Here is Today h/t Links I Would Gchat You If We Were Friends

  • This thread of family holiday goss:

    Twitter avatar for @GeeDee215
    G.D. @GeeDee215
    It’s that time of year again: What was the most 😱 family gossip/secret you ever found out during the holidays?
    1:50 PM ∙ Nov 20, 2018
    1,672Likes546Retweets
Twitter avatar for @itsjuanlove
juan vidal @itsjuanlove
saved the puppy from getting eaten by an alligator and never dropped his cigar, a true legend
Image
3:29 PM ∙ Nov 22, 2020
374,412Likes81,942Retweets

Minerva moment


Mood

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A post shared by Boobie (@boobie_billie)

Cruel compliments

Nicola Slawson of The Single Supplement got my postcard in the UK! I love to spread cheer by snail mail. Read her deeply vulnerable piece about body image here.

Yesterday the lovely Jillian Anthony made my day when a postcard she sent me from the epic US road trip she is currently on arrived. If you haven’t signed up to her amazing newsletter Cruel Summer Book Club, what are you waiting for? It’s so good. She also happens to be a badass single woman making her own way in the world.


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